Family
Private Wealth
Annabel Andreou
September 2025
Prenuptial agreements have long been a topic of debate and misconception. For many years, they were viewed as rare, elitist, or even unromantic, often associated with wealth or distrust. However, societal attitudes have evolved, and prenups are increasingly recognised as practical, responsible, and even empowering tools for couples planning a future together.
Historically in England and Wales, prenups were largely ignored by the courts. Marriage was viewed as a lifelong commitment, and attempts to predetermine financial outcomes were often considered invalid. This changed with the landmark case of Radmacher v Granatino in 2010, when the Supreme Court confirmed that a fair prenuptial agreement should be given decisive weight unless it would be unjust to enforce it. This legal recognition has encouraged couples to consider prenups as a standard part of relationship planning, rather than something only for the wealthy or high-profile.
Despite legal acceptance, social misconceptions remain. Some people worry that discussing a prenup suggests a lack of trust, while others see them as unromantic or unnecessary. Media portrayals of celebrity divorces often reinforce these ideas, presenting prenups either as a source of conflict or as tools used solely to protect wealth. In reality, prenups are about clarity, fairness, and planning — they protect both parties and provide a roadmap that can prevent disputes in the future.
Attitudes towards prenups also vary across generations and cultures. Younger couples, particularly those marrying later in life or with established careers and assets, are often more open to the idea. They recognise that prenups can acknowledge non-financial contributions such as childcare, homemaking, or career sacrifices. Blended families, too, find prenups valuable in balancing the needs of children from previous relationships with the interests of a new partner. Culturally, some families or communities still consider financial discussions taboo before marriage, while others view careful planning as responsible and necessary.
International relationships introduce further considerations. Couples with assets, property, or family ties in multiple countries must navigate differing laws and potential conflicts between jurisdictions. Prenups can provide clarity, protect interests, and ensure agreements are recognised abroad, making them an essential tool for cross-border couples.
Beyond legal and practical considerations, prenups have positive emotional impacts. Far from undermining love or commitment, they often strengthen relationships. Open discussions about finances and expectations foster trust, mutual respect, and shared responsibility. Couples frequently report that the process of creating a prenup improves communication, reduces anxiety about future uncertainties, and reassures both partners that contributions — whether financial or otherwise — are recognised and valued.
Despite these benefits, some couples still experience resistance. Conversations about prenups can feel uncomfortable or even pessimistic, and cultural or familial expectations may create additional pressure. The key is framing the prenup as a positive planning tool rather than a prediction of failure. Involving neutral, experienced legal advisers can guide couples through the process calmly, ensuring fairness while reducing emotional tension.
In recent years, prenups have become increasingly standard in legal and financial advice. Many financial planners now recommend them to clients with assets or complex family situations. Younger generations see prenups as part of relationship literacy, akin to budgeting or financial planning, rather than a sign of distrust or pessimism.
Looking ahead, attitudes toward prenups are likely to continue evolving. They are becoming a normalised part of relationship planning, particularly among professionals, blended families, and international couples. No longer are they perceived as a symbol of mistrust; they are recognised as practical, fair, and empowering tools that promote communication, clarity, and security.
In today’s context, the real question is no longer “Why would we have a prenup?” but rather “Why wouldn’t we?” When approached thoughtfully, a prenuptial agreement strengthens relationships, protects both parties, and provides peace of mind, making it an essential consideration for couples planning a shared future.
